The most wonderful time of the year!

Hands down, no argument, Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year, every single year! Agreed? Agreed😁 .

When you hear of Christmas your mind automatically gets filled with the scents, the smiles, the songs, the gifts , you hear bells ringing, you get flashes of family time, not forgetting all the goodies and food.

This season urges so many people to look beyond themselves to show forth the goodwill that would seem to be missing for the previous seasons. People are extra kind and extra helpful, some cant even explain why but that’s what happens around Christmas time.

What wouldn’t you give for this same aura, aroma , atmosphere to be present all year round? That would be so amazing, wouldn’t it? Here’s a little secret, It is possible for you to have that same joy, excitement, love, and togetherness all year round. I’ve experienced it for myself, at the place I call home, HopeNYC.

Have you ever felt tangible hope? At my home you could taste , you can feel it everywhere, it’s in the air, you can see it on everyone’s face. There’s no denying it. Don’t you want to experience that Hope?

Then come this December the 8th at 5 pm we’re about to share this undeniable hope with the world. Trust me you don’t want to miss this. This is an opportunity of a lifetime where you can aid in giving someone an experience that will change their lives forever.

You must be curious to know what is this year round hope and joy we have to offer. See most people think they have it but for them it only appears around Christmas time and they can’t keep up the act because they don’t know the source of the joy. Im about to reveal the source of our Hope, it’s Christ Jesus. Having Christ live within you will give you that hope not only for your lifetime but for eternity and there’s no pretending there.

So join us on December 8th , 2019 with my family as we share hope on Rockaway Blvd, to a dying world. We want to let the world know that Jesus Christ is the reason for the season and in Christ you can have Christmas all year round! I’m saying this because it’s not just about the one day but it’s about that one encounter with Messiah and that’s what Parade on Rockaway is all about. That one encounter that changes your life forever.

I see you’ve read it to the end bravo 👏 or maybe you read the end first… cheater 🤣. Either way I’m happy you’re here. Can I challenge you to share this with someone who you think needs Hope today? It will be eternally appreciated.

Perfect timing!

Are we waiting on God’s timing?

Or are we trying to manipulate God into doing what we want, when we want it and how we want it? The latter seems to be true. We say things like Lord we will wait on you, do whatever pleases you, it’s your will and not mine. Yet when things are unfavourable we lose faith.

Are we really trusting God’s timing? Throwing around weightless words, as if  God can be fooled. He is not mocked He knows the very intent of our hearts. Think of the countless times these words parted our lips; without thoroughly thinking it through. I surrender my life completely to you Christ. What does those words really mean?

It means, trusting that He is orchestrating every single aspect of our lives, even the tiniest, minuscule detail. He is completely in control. It means,  not second guessing what God is doing, but taking our hands off of the wheel. Its letting yourself go knowing He will catch you. That’s what trusting God looks like. 

So can we challenge ourselves to trust God? Just let go in His secure arms. He is more than capable to take care of us, even if it the situation looks grim, still trust God. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths,Proverbs 3:5,6. His perfect timing!

Good news!

Who likes to receive gifts or good news? I can see everybody sticking both hands up excitedly. My hands were the first to go up.

Everybody loves to receive good news.

I have great news for you! As a matter of fact, I have the best news for you! The world needs to hear this!

Think of all the possible things that would make you so elated if someone were to bring you good news right now. Your loan has been repaid in full, here are the keys to your new home or car, congratulations you are pregnant . Whatever it is, the news I have for you trumps that everyday, all year round. Do I have your attention now?

It has been said that some of the wealthiest people in the world are the most unhappy or the most miserable. Doesn’t that make you ponder? Yes, material things can aid in a better quality of life but can it give you true joy , true fulfillment or a true meaning to life? To be frank the answer is no, you’ll never be satisfied if your need for fulfillment is dependent on material things or what this world has to offer. No amount of money or riches can grant you true joy or fulfillment in life.

We have all felt hurt, disappointed, sad or robbed at some point in our lives. I’m sure none of us if we had the choice would want to experience any of those things again. What if I told you, you can have a life free from those things, free from the pain, free from the heartache, free from death, disease, depression etc? What if I told you, you can have that forever and ever? You wouldn’t be poor, there will be no sickness, there will be no pain. That’s what most of us are seeking anyway , but in vain. What wouldnt you give to have that for an eternity? I can hear most of us say “Hmmm for a life of pure joy, forever? There is nothing I’m not willing to risk for it.” Now that’s the right attitude to have ,because this gift is attainable; no gimmicks, no fine prints and it’s free of charge. Yes, you heard right! It’s free of charge.

Let’s unwrap the best gift ever given to mankind.

It’s a man , no it’s not Michael Ealy ladies think pure thoughts. God the Father saw a world that was so sick and dying. He loved them so much He decided He will not allow them to perish. God had, what we would consider the hardest decision of a lifetime, to make. He sacrificed His only begotten and beloved son to save the world. Ok this part might sound really sad but hold on there’s more. Borned in a manger, to a virgin mother. Blameless ,without spot or wrinkle, Jesus Christ came down from His glorious throne to die a gruesome death (just keep reading man) so that we can live with Him in eternity . His blood was shed to set us free from sin eternally. We are no longer slaves, we are free! That my friend is the best news anyone can receive.

God is real and His love for us is real. Most of us are familiar with John 3:16, (Let’s read it slowly and take the time to understand each word.) “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believe in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.” God doesn’t want you to perish, salvation is the solution. It’s the best gift in the whole wide world, there is nothing better. Not only is salvation for our life here and now ; but it’s our vehicle into eternity. You make the choice to accept it or reject it.

Francis Chan once made an illustration of life on earth and eternity. He used a very very very long rope, let’s say 10,000ft long. The first 12 inches represented our life here on earth, the rest of it represented eternity. See we were tricked into thinking all that matters is in the here and now. Dont be fooled , all that matters is eternity. Where will you spend eternity? You make the choice, accept the greatest gift ever given to mankind and have everlasting life!

Now that’s some good news!!!!

An encounter with God

I want to address something that has been on my mind for a while now. Something that I struggled with as well. Today’s discussion will be a bit on the solemn side. We have serious business to take care of.

An encounter with God must effect change.

An encounter with God must effect change. Whether it’s a change of heart, a change of the mind, something must change.

How can we say we encountered God and remain the same? Hmmm, that gives us something to think about. Are we just saying the churchy stuff like “I met with the Lord today” , just because it’s cool to say? Or because we want people to think we’re super spiritual? If we say those things and there is nothing to show for it, I think it should make us think twice before uttering a word. When we do a self check, if we’re still comfortable with doing the same things that convicted us in church last Sunday something is not right.

We all get caught up in the high of the presence of God, then return to our old ways.

Being in God’s presence causes you to say things like who am I that you are mindful of me?, or how can I dare stand in the presence of God and return to my old ways? An encounter with God brings an awareness that causes us to reconsider our position. We see God for who He is, and our eyes are opened to see who we are. We become so aware of everything, our thoughts change, we no longer fuss about trivial things. We now consider, what if God returns right this moment am I in the right place, am I saying the right things or am I doing the right things? Will God be pleased with me? An encounter with God leaves us thirsty for more and more and more of Him.

I personally do not believe God sent his Holy spirit just so we can say; wow, the presence of God was so rich in there today huh? Holy Spirit is not here to receive complements from us. These are some of the reasons I believe we have Holy Spirit with us.

1. To sanctify us, separate us onto God. 1 Cor 6:11

2. To teach us, to correct us Jn 16:13-15

3. To convict us of sin, we are not to remain in our sins Jn 16:8-10
Holy spirit is not here just to make us feel nice.

He is perfect, being in his presence ignites the desire to be more like Him.

In turn we ought to consider our ways and be challenged to a deeper more sincere walk with God.

It’s ironic that we claim we have encountered the one who walked on water, healed the lame and the blind, the one that no matter where he goes something changes, the one who made the ultimate sacrifice, He died for us and nothing changes in our lives. When this happens I suggest we search ourselves. Our pull toward the things of the world should be redirected. The pull should now be Lord cleanse me , I want to walk like You, talk like You, I want to think just like you. We would make confessions like it’s not about what I feel is right but Your word is truth oh Lord, we wouldn’t hold our own opinions in higher esteem than we do the word of God. That’s facts!

Let’s take a brief look at Isaiah’s encounter with God.

In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord sitting on a throne, high and lifted up, and the train of His robe filled the temple. Above it stood seraphim; each one had six wings: with two he covered his face, with two he covered his feet, and with two he flew. And one cried to another and said: “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of hosts; The whole earth is full of His glory!” And the posts of the door were shaken by the voice of him who cried out, and the house was filled with smoke. So I said: “Woe is me, for I am undone! Because I am a man of unclean lips, And I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; For my eyes have seen the King, The Lord of hosts.”
Isaiah 6:1‭-‬5 NKJV

This should be our response when we are in the company of The perfect God. Naturally you internalize. We claim to have been saved, Holy Ghost filled , we boast about our encounters with God and yet there has been no desire for change in our lives. Maybe, just maybe we didn’t encounter God and need to be honest with ourselves. There’s no fooling God people, He knows every thing.

Lord give each of us the genuine desire to really encounter You.

God is with us!

For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.
Philippians 2:13 KJV

This is such a revelation to me. There are countless times that I’ve been taking credit for the little efforts I make to strengthen my walk with God, saying things like at least I’m trying. As a result I would end up feeling tired and lonely, sometimes eventually giving up. Thinking I’m the only one that’s trying to make our relationship work and it’s obvious that it takes two to relate.

Even the littlest of desire that I have to do something to please God, comes from God himself… I’m totally mind blown…. Wow…. I’m not alone God is walking with me step by step, egging me on. He’s with me people! Some of you may say, wait is it only now she’s realizing this? Leave me alone man, 🙈 let me revel in the revelation that my daddy has never left me. He has held my hand all the way.

This scripture may seem so insignificant to some but it has so much weight.  Let this encourage your heart, may your eyes be opened to see that God is not far from you. May this scripture cause your relationship with God to deepen,  widen, heighten. If you’re struggling in your walk with God but in your heart you’re saying ABBA (Father) I really want to please you. The fact that you even have the desire to honour God, that is God working in you. That’s one way to know that Your heavenly Father is close to you. Somebody shout Hallelujah! I literally feel like screaming. God is awesome friends!

God is with us always! One more time for the people in the back. For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.

Today I thank God for this revelation!





Be submissive?!

This is one hot and steamy topic but it’s one that’s necessary especially in these days. Growing up I thought submission to my husband would have been as easy as 123 but… well… lemme tell you this… It’s not as easy as I thought it would’ve been. As a matter of fact it’s not easy at all.  It’s all about being obedient to God. Being willing to let go of what you think is right and allowing God to renew your mind.

These are some bible verses concerning submission to husband Ephesians 5:22-23 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.     1 Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

So… does submission mean that my opinions and ideas must always be overshadowed by my husband? Or is it ok to state how I feel, my desires, my wants? Does it mean that having an argument is out of the question? What about if I see my husband doing something that I know would end up in chaos is it ok for me to say what you’re doing is wrong? What about the finances should I  interject if I think the money is not being handled correctly with good reasons? Like where is the line drawn?

According to Jacky Hill Perry, “submission is not agreeing on everything , it doesn’t mean leaving your brain at the alter, it doesn’t mean you dont try to influence your husband positively. Being submissive does not mean getting all of your spiritual strength from your husband, neither does it mean living or acting in fear of your husband. It is Following  his lead in everything that honors God.”

Yes you are still an individual with a mind of your own, no you dont have to keep your thoughts and ideas to yourself. In everything you do, do it as unto God. I know I  know women can be really fiesty and impulsive,  speak your mind now then regret it later. I speak from experience🙈. In all seriousness we need to be honorable in what we say and how we say things.

Alot of people ask the question so what if my husband wants me to do something illegal or something that’s not Christ like? For that answer refer to the above 3rd paragraph last line…. Okay I’ll repeat just incase you don’t want to read it again… I got you…. It says: follow His lead in everything that honors God. So no you dont have to accompany him to rob the bank.

This brings me to my final point, our loyalty,  reverence, honor, priority must first be to God. We ought to submit to God first and foremost, and in submitting to God you will in turn submit to your husband. In addition to that the scripture says  in 1 Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.  Knowing that God is leading your husband is reason enough to let go of the reigns. Need I say more? Submitting to your husband is being obedient to God. Case closed.







The life of a Christian is not to prove to the world that we’re perfect little human beings, walking around with everything sorted. Nope, absolutely not! If that’s what you thought, my friend you need to wash that thought completely out of your mind. Wash out your brain..🤣

No human being has a perfect life and more so Christians. Far from perfect, far far far from perfect. Often times we mess up so much it’s a crying shame. Like how does God put up with us? But that’s just the point He is more than absolutely able. We’re weak but He’s all powerful, we’re imperfect but He’s the definition of perfection, we mess up he cleans us up.

Our lives as Christian’s has little if anything to do with us. Our lives merely point to our father, Who relentlessly and fervently loves us. Our life merely is a story of a Father who picks us up dusts us off and set us on the way to do His will. A Father who loves His children enough to discipline them, to correct them. And sometimes the discipline is not the easiest to endure. That’s when you see some of us looking all worn out and ragged/ rugged… just kidding… a little🤔.

Basically being a Christian is not a race to show off who has it most put together. At times those who aim to portray this image is going through hell, seriously. But our lives is to show that we rely on a perfect God. We dont have it all together, He puts us together.

“I don’t want to be a Christian because you have to be perfect” That’s how alot of people think these days but that’s not the focus. The moral of the story is it’s ok to be weak because in our weakness God’s strength is made perfect. You dont have to get it right before coming to God, if you let Him He will make you right.

So Christians are not perfect we just rely on a perfect God.

The end…..

He hears… He sees… He knows

God knows everything that happens in our lives. Nothing that happens, happens by chance.

When you give your plans over to God He orders your steps and everything falls into place beautifully. The steps of a righteous man are ordered by God. Ps 37:24

Don’t think for a moment that God is just looking on with no control over what is happening in your life. God is in charge of everything.

Be at peace knowing that God is working it out for your good. Remember God sees the finish from the beginning. His plans for us are always good but you have to obey His orders and his commands.

When we step out of God’s will we also step out of His covering for our lives. We cant expect to do what we want, how we want and when we want then when things don’t go accordingly we blame God. “Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God that He may exalt you in due time.” 1 Peter 5:6-7.

The world doesn’t revolve around us. This is God’s world and He does what pleases Him at all times.


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Refined gold has to go through the fire!

How do we deal with challenges in our Christian walk?

Wait did you somehow think that being a christian eliminates you from having challenges? Sorry to break it to you but this Christian walk is all about challenges and overcoming them, one after the next. Is it going to be easy? Nope, definitely not. Will you feel like giving up? Yep, a lot of the times. Does it feel like it will never end? Mhmm, it does… almost feels like “when it rains it pours”. I just think I should be very vivid about the christian walk because a lot of us go in with the idea that it’s going to be easy things, all nice and dandy. That’s not the case, journeying as a christian is hard.

Why do we face challenges as Christians?

My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing, James 1:2-4 . In other words, the testing of our faith through our experiences leads to spiritual maturity and inner peace. The struggles and trials we face are not to knock us out of the race but it is to make us stronger in Christ Jesus. It is imperative to know this, especially when we’re in the midst of our testing, so instead of becoming downcast we can indeed rejoice in knowing at the end I will be stronger, better should I persevere. 

What should I do when faced with challenges?

  • Tell yourself, this is a test to make you stronger.

  • Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him. James 1:12

  • Encourage yourself in the Lord.

  • Sing praises unto God.

  • Read the Bible.

  • Pray for strength to endure.

  • Remind yourself that; giving up is the easy way out.

  • Your reward comes in overcoming.

  • Put on the armor of God: Ephesians 610 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15 and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16 In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17 Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

2 Corinthians 1:5 Just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.

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